Am i gay if im bi
Am I Still Bi If…?
I was perusing the bisexual-tagged topics on Reddit when I came across a post titled, "Am I still bisexual if"
You can see the entire upload here , but in short, the original poster is a year-old cis man who came out as bi a several months ago. Since then, however, he&#;s "constantly questioning his sexuality" and "absolutely hates this feeling."
The unsure bi teen continued, "Sometimes I am % certain I am bi, and other times I am scared I might be faking it. The thought of sex with a guy is enticing but much less than sex with a girl. "
"I don&#;t know," he continued, "does this feeling ever go away, or will I sort of be questioning until I hold had a boyfriend. Thanks for listening. I want I was just 50/50 or something simpler. "
When told by (awesome and supportive!) commenters that he can definitely still claim the bi label, the original poster (let&#;s dial him John), replied, "I mean, I love labeling myself as bi, it makes me feel unique and just good about myself, I am pleased to be bi."
John continued, "It&#;s just I worry it may just be a faze [sic] or my stupid teenage thinker being confus
Re: Am I bi or gay or straight just confused
Unread postby thewrit3r »
Hi,
Before I delve in any further, I just want to initiate off by saying that sexuality is really personal. That doesn't mean you can't get advice for others on how you feel especially if they've been in similar situations, but ultimately it will be up to you to decide what your sexuality is and what it means to you. I know it can be nerve wrecking to feel like you don't know where you fit in, but a lot of people don't understand, either. Sexuality can be fluid for so many people, and part of the fun in it can be to figure out how you notice as you have fresh experiences. Not knowing exactly what your sexuality is doesn't mean you don't know yourself; it's simply like any other aspect of you that you've taken the time to explore. For example, when I was younger I didn't think about boogie until I tried it, and then I start out I liked it. It wasn't that I didn't know myself, but I simply had never experienced dance before to know that I would enjoy it. Does that make sense?
Anyway, moving on to your scrutinize after my long winded intro: From what you wrote, it sounds fond of you're interested in men. And from wh
Am I really bi or am I just wanting to be? *TRIGGER WARNING*
there are healthy sexual connections, and unhealthy ones
think of addiction - a coping mechanism as an analogy. Going to the gym can be healthy, going to the gym to an extent it disrupts or is leaned on for other reasons can be unhealthy.
Sexual relations own this element to be sure
Sexual orientation is established early on and csa, in my belief as developed by reading a lot upon the topic, does not determine or create ones sexual orientation. CSA can led to immense confusion and unhealthy attitudes and beliefs surrounding sexual relations and intimacy.
I think it is not a coincidence that those that rate their sexual intimate experiences amongst the highest (not to state others don&#;t have sky-high degree of satisfaction and contentment) are often those in long term partnerships with open communiction - and it seems for obvious reasons. They often have a deep rooted relationship built on confide in, honesty, connection and message, which follows into the bedroom. As social creatures that crave and wish healthy, reciprocal positive connections, this seems to construct sense.
While o
Frequently Asked Questions
Unfortunately, no one can answer this scrutinize except for you. Bisexuality is defined as “a person who can be emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to more than one sex, gender or gender identity.”
We recommend examining the type of attractions you’ve had over the course of your being. If you see a pattern of being attracted to more than one gender, you are probably bi+ (an umbrella phrase for people who are bisexual, pansexual, fluid, gender non-conforming or any other designation for folks who are attracted to more than one gender).
You do not have to have had sexual experiences with specific genders to identify as bi+. Sexual orientation is rooted in attraction, not behavior. For example, heterosexuals who have never had sexual experiences are still considered heterosexual. Same is true for bi+ people who have never had sexual experiences with members of the same gender or different genders. Your identity is valid regardless of your past or current dating history.
Some bi+ people have a taste for certain genders. Some don’t. All are valid. If you have a teaspoon of bisexual attraction, you are bi+.
For some bi+ people, preferences/attractions
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